Back when it all started to happen, I had just begun my higher studies. I was involved in one of the most difficult careers, trying to focus on my studies as much as possible. I flunked quite a few times before I was able to realize that managing studies and work together is one hell of a task.
I took an approach to study, work and take up my responsibilities in a way so that none would be affected by the other. I usually took out an hour or two in the morning when required to do whatever household chores I needed to. I now wake up at 5:00 am so that I can study for at least two hours before I get ready for work.
Threading everything together I realized that anything you do in life is the same. Neither family, friends or work are going to make you happy. Happiness will only come when you do things the way you want to not in the way others want you to. Sometimes, the people you most rely on turn your backs on you because you did not give them the time they needed from you. Who needs such people. It is better just to be with people who care about you no matter what conditions you are in just like my mother.
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